Sunday, January 1, 2012

Failed Adoptions Create More Homeless Youths

By MERIBAH KNIGHT

Lamar West has lost parents twice in his life. The first time was when he was 4; the second was a month before his 18th birthday. The circumstances differed, but the outcomes did not.

When Mr. West, 20, tries to remember his biological parents, his eyes close and his face goes still. He remembers his mother’s name, Rochelle Griffin. Then he recalls a place — a hallway, an office — and fragments of conversation. “Records. Drug abuse. Termination.”

At age 5, Mr. West was adopted from the Illinois child welfare system. His four siblings went elsewhere. Parental rights were terminated. His child welfare case was closed. His last name and birth certificate were changed, listing his adopter, Frankie Lee West, as his mother. He had a new family.

He lived in Ms. West’s Roseland home with her and her eight other children (six of them were adopted) for years. But in 2008, he went to stay nearby with a family friend for a few months because Ms. West’s new house on the Southwest Side had become too crowded. He remained in regular contact with her. Then, in January 2009, he went to her home and discovered it empty.

She had moved — “upped and went,” as Mr. West said — to Atlanta. It was a month before he turned 18, and a month before the checks she received from the child welfare system on behalf of Mr. West were scheduled to stop.

“I’ve never felt pain like that before,” Mr. West said of finding the empty house. “My heart was beating so fast. It was like someone was punching me from the inside of my chest.”

Mr. West is what caseworkers and providers refer to as a “failed adoption.” He is part of a growing group that is entering the local shelter system for homeless youths after their families vanish as quickly as the government checks attached to them do.

Anne Holcomb, Mr. West’s caseworker and the coordinator for the Night Ministry’s Open Door Youth Shelter, said she was dismayed by the increase in homeless cases resulting from adopted youths who reach 18, the standard cutoff age for adoption subsidies in Illinois.

“I’m definitely seeing more failed adoptions,” she said. “I’m seeing more than I did in the ’90s and even more over the last four years, because these youths were adopted as kids and now they’re 18.”

With one of the largest child-welfare systems in the nation, Illinois had 51,331 children in state care in 1997. Often they bounced from foster home to foster home. Each new placement can add a new layer of trauma, experts said.

That same year, President Bill Clinton called on states to double the number of adoptions and permanent placements in five years because a focus on permanency would help both children and state budgets. Adoptive families received state assistance and provided children with a place to call home, while removing them from state rosters and reducing the number of caseworkers.

Between fiscal years 1985 and 1994, 8,180 children were adopted from the Illinois foster care system; between 1995 and 2004, the number had soared to 36,212, according to the Illinois Department of Child and Family Services.

Today the emphasis on permanency has shrunk the system to 15,413 children in fiscal year 2011, from its 1997 peak.

Research shows that from 1988 to 2006, children were typically adopted at age 7. Now, a little more than a decade after the boom years of 1998 to 2001 — accounting for 22,057 adoptions — more youths are aging out of subsidies than ever before.

“There was a huge scramble to pressure people into permanency,” said Mark Ruckdaeschel, director of Neon Street Dorms, a homeless youths shelter in Uptown. “And there was a big discussion about the financial benefits for doing this. It was a selling point.”

Monthly subsidies range from $360 for an infant to well over $1,000 for a child with special needs.

While foster youths receive benefits until age 21, benefits for adopted youths expire at 18. Youths who are abandoned by their adoptive family at that point are often left homeless and without a safety net — even from the system responsible for their adoption.

“It’s frustrating,” said Mr. Ruckdaeschel, who previously worked for organizations contracted by the Illinois child welfare system. “You feel like you’re doing D.C.F.S.’s job without the backing of D.C.F.S.’s deep pockets.”

The suddenly homeless youths are legal adults and are considered outside the system’s responsibility. In fact, the agency’s responsibility can end even earlier.

“D.C.F.S. has no capacity to and no authority to monitor or track families after an adoption,” said Kendall Marlowe, a spokesman for the agency. Richard Calica took over as director of the agency on Dec. 15, and he was not available to comment for this article.

Mr. West, a reticent and soft-spoken young man, has been homeless since he discovered Ms. West’s house empty two years ago. He had one brief phone call with her, but she never offered to take him back, he said. Ms. West did not respond to e-mails asking for comment.

For a while, Mr. West and his girlfriend, Amanda, stayed with his longtime friend Rodney Carter, 39. They also spent time in homeless shelters. When they married in September, they moved in with Amanda’s parents and her brother; they have a 1-year-old daughter, Kayla, and are expecting another child. With six people in a one-bedroom apartment, tensions are high.

Mr. West recently started seasonal day labor work in the receiving department of Follett Educational Services. It does not pay much — about $300 a week after the placement agency takes its cut — not enough to save for an apartment. He has no high school diploma and hopes to get his G.E.D., but for now he is the primary breadwinner and a paycheck is critical, he said.

Despite his anger toward his adoptive mother, Mr. West said he longed for the family he had known since he was 5.

When the push for permanency began 14 years ago, critics said that placements were being made in haste. They warned that children would eventually come flooding back into the system.

Limited research shows that about 90 percent of adoptions last through the child’s 18th birthday, said Nancy Rolock, a senior research specialist at the University of Illinois at Chicago who studies permanency in the child-welfare system. Yet what happens after age 18, Ms. Rolock said, is nearly impossible to track.

D.C.F.S. is aware that not all placements are perfect matches. To prevent adoption failures, it has adoption-preservation programs, which tries to salvage an adoption before it breaks down.

In the last fiscal year, the programs served 1,318 families, which cost the department $6,231,707. Of the 2,490 children involved, 35 were returned to the custody of the child-welfare system.

In 2009, the Illinois General Assembly passed the Foster Youth Successful Transition to Adulthood Act, which enabled former foster youths under the age of 21 to resume receiving benefits from D.C.F.S. It benefited youths who may have chosen to leave the agency early only to find out that life without its aid can be difficult. Yet the law does not include foster youths who have been adopted.

Representative Sara Feigenholtz, a co-sponsor of the law, said its scope should be widened. “I believe that cherry-picking and hair-splitting doesn’t get us where we want to be,” she said. “I’m beginning to realize that there is a lot more work to be done.”

After a long day at his job, Mr. West collapsed in an armchair in his mother-in-law’s Albany Park apartment. Kayla toddled around, giggling, eating a peeled apple. “I’ve been thinking about something all day,” he said and rose to his feet.

He walked into the 8-foot-by-6-foot bedroom he shares with his wife and their daughter, sat on the bed and typed out a message on his mobile phone to Jennifer, his adopted sister, who left along with Ms. West.

“I’m asking this question to give myself closure. Am I a part of your family or not, honest?” Then he hit send.

Source http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/30/us/failed-adoptions-create-more-homeless-youths.html?pagewanted=1

79 comments:

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  2. I was adopted and my adoptive parents wouldn't spend a dime on me when I was a child it was so awful I cant dexcribe and nbody cared I enede up having to live in a barn when I was 12 yearsold I had nbody to depend on and nbody cared I finished hgihschool and did miumn wage jobs I never had the money to get my own place I have been homelss a lot and I never have any money its so awful an painful to live like that non adoptees have parents when they have money problems when your adopted and cant have money you have nobdy adoption is so awful I hate being adopted I don't even know why I had to be adopted its been so awful my life has been so awful and nbody cares about me

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  3. being adopted is awful I nevr have any money and never had the money to get my own place my adopters would never spend money on me as a child I have been homless my whole life even though I finished highschool and did mium wage jobs people expect you to finish highschool but don't give a crap if you have no money or no place to live adoption sucks

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  4. what a douch bag socity we live in America suck adoption agecnys suck

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  5. being adopted makes you homless

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  6. those adopted people should sew those adoption agencys that make them homless give those adopted people some money to live on

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  7. will the adoption agency people are never homeless how disgusting

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  8. this is not noticed enough and its bad America is making people adopted denying them of birthfamily and making them homless and why is America doing that

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  9. and on top of that shit America has brouh in all this awful technology wich makes it hard to make a dam living

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  10. here America doesn't want people to be poor but doesn't give a dam when it makes people poor

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  11. a lot could be done those adopted people should sew those dam worthless adoption agencys

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  12. being adopted makes you homless

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  13. the America shit socity America does not talk enough about how being adopted makes you homless wich is a dam disgrace

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  14. being adopted is stressful you never have family to turn to when you need help amd depending on strangers sucks

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  15. America needs to quit ignoring the adopted people and stART HELPING THEM

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  16. BEING ADOPTED MAKES YOU HOMLESS WHY DO WE MAKE PEOPLE ADOPTED

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  17. AMERICA YOUR DISGUSTING

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  18. SEW THOSE DAM ADOPTION AGENCYS

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  19. ADOPTED PEOPLE IN AMERICA DONT WANT TO BE HOMLESS ADOPTED PEOPLE SHOULD SEW THOSE ADOPTION AGECVNCYS FOR MAKING THEM HOMLESS AND DENYING THEM OF BIRTH FAMILY

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  20. adopted people should sew those adoption agecncys for making them homless and denying them of birthfamily amd destroying there birthcertficate

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  21. there has been lots of people tons of people that live better than adopted people just because there not adopted

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  22. being adopted is a dead end in life

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  23. there are lot of people that live better than adopted people so why do some people have to be adopted

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  24. there are lots of people that live better than adopted people so why do some people have to be adopted especially when being adopted is just going to turn into a dead end life being adopted is not the better life

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  25. being adopted is not the better life

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  26. I get so tired of people who are not adopted saying being adopted is the better life how rude I would like to see you non adoptees with out your birthfamily you would be so upset if you couldn't have your bio family

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  27. I would have had a better life not being adopted

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  28. the better life is to not be adopted

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  29. we need to get rid of trump he is an awful president he is ruining my life its hard enough to be adopted and then to have trump as president just makes things even worse . us adopted people need a better president we adopted people have no family and awful president like trump just makes things worse

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  30. non adoptess are such douch bags they are alwasys so mean and rude to adopted people like me

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  31. why do americans make some people adopted when all being adopted does is make you homeless being homeless is awful

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  32. I hate trump and the people that voted for trump are scum bags

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  33. the people that voted for trump are evil and stupid

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  34. trump tards are evil and stupid

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  35. get rid of trump him and the people that voted for him are destroying America

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  36. get rid of trump and the trump tards they both are destroying America

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  37. get rid of trump and the trump tards they both are destroying America

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  38. NON ADOPTEES ARE EVIL MEAN STUPID SCUM BAGS

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  39. HOW MUCH MONEY DO ADOPTION AGENCY PEOPLE MAKE SELLING BABYS

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  40. HOW MUCH DO ADOPTION AGENCYS MAKE SELLING BABYS

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  41. ADOPTION AGENCY SELLING BABYS

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  42. PLEASE SOMEBODY GET RID OF TRUMP AND GET A BETTER PRESIDENT TRUMP IS THE WORST PRESIDENT EVER I CANT GET OVER ALL THE RETARDS THAT LOVE HIM

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  43. I CANT STAND TRUMP PLEASE GET A BETTER PRESIDENT I AM IN MISERY HELP ME

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  44. I find it sad that people got rid of the payphone and a bunch of other stuff from the 70s 80s and 90s

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  45. I am adopted and I will be adopted forever with no birthfamily I find that sad and awful

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  46. I am adopted and I will be adopted forever with no birthfamily its awful how can I do great in life like people want when I am not even allowed to have birthfamily

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  47. why are people getting rid of the payphone its not like everybody can afford a dam cell phone

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  48. non adoptees are such mean freaks , people always tell us adoptees that we have all these oppurtinitys in life but then they never let us adopted people havbe any opuuritntys they just like to say they will givb us oppuritys but let us adoptees have none , the non adoptees are the ones who get all the opuritnys and love and attention us adopted people get nothing

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  49. the non adoptess always like to treat us adopted people like our problems don't matter any time I say I hurt not having birthfamily the non adoptees like to say how that's no big deal and how they have problems to non adoptees are such mean scum bags yea but at least the non adoptees are allowed to have birthfamily the non adoptees are such mean creeps it seems to me the non adoptees are the only ones who are treated good and matter us adopted people get ignored and told we don't matter

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  50. I will never be allowed to have birthfamiy while the non adoptees will be allowed to have friends and birthfamily and take it for granted

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  51. non adoptees always make it so clear how much they hate adopted people like me

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  52. everytime I feel bad about not having birthfamily and try to let people know it the non adoptess always say it no big deal that I cant have birthfamily but when a non adoptees come from a divorced family they get all kinds of love and support and everybody feels sorry for them , how can non adoptees be so supportive abvout family but not give a dam that adopted people like me that have no birthfamily non adoptees are such mean one sided scum bags

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  53. there is so many non adoptees who like to tell me how me not having birtfamily is not important but then when a non adoptees birthfamily member dies its boo hoo feel sorry for me

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  54. people want me to great in life but then wont let me have birthfamily how can I do good in life when I am not even allowed to have birthfamily

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  55. I cant stand how people tell you to get a job but then nobody will hire you or if you do get hired its a shitty paying jobv that's doesn't pay shit and everybvody treates you like you chose that

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  56. I cant stand how I only could get low paying jobs and eveybody treated me like it was a dam choice people also treat me like being adopted and me being poor is a dam choice yea I could have had that high paying job but the low paying job was so much easier and I signed my self up to be adopted give me a dam break no I did not choose to be adopted or poor or adopted or have low paying jobs you mean assholes

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  57. all these people that like to say being adopted is the better life what a bunch of bullshit

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  58. a lot of these people that like to say how being adopted is the better life are not even adopted

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  59. how the fuck can they even know about what its like to be adopted when they have never even been adopted

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  60. I am adopted and I can say being adopted is not the better life

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  61. the better life is to not be adopted

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  62. being adopted is a awful life

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  63. being adopted is a awful life

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  64. I cant stand how the non adoptees are better of and have the better life and are more prevleged but have the nerve to say there life is harder than a adoptees life not having birthfamily is the harder life any intelligent person knows that but a lot of non adoptees are not very smart

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  65. when your adopted you cant afford to be dumb your already having to deal with a awful life

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  66. adopted people are more likely to become homless than non adoptes due to the fact they have no birthfamily

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  67. people have told me my whole life how being adopted is the good life and I should feel thankful but if being adopted is the good life then why is it that everybody is doing better than me in life it seems everybody does better than me and so many people are above me I have never known one person below me and only a tiny few on my level , being adopted sucks

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  68. I worked so hard in life just so everybody could be above me and a lot of people will rub it in my face to how they are doing better than me but have the gumption to tell me how being adopted is the better life

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  69. being adopted is awful and I am adopted and I worked hard in life and everybody does better than me and people have the nerve to tell me how being adopted is the good life

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  70. non adoptees don't give a dam about us adopted people non adoptees are selfish and self centered

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  71. non adoptees treat us adopted people badly and like crap but then the non adoptees try to act and talk like there good kind nice people

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